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Tuesday, December 20, 2011

very thankful

We have been celebrating many firsts with Cecilia lately. Most recently she joined us for her first Thanksgiving. Each year we have family come in from out of town to spend the holiday with us. For many this was their first time meeting Cecilia. For my Aunt Sue this was her second time seeing her great niece. She visited in August, which was a very difficult period for Cecilia. She was extremely fussy and uncomfortable most of the time so she was not able to fully enjoy her. In the past 2-3 months Cecilia has done a 180 and turned into a very delightful baby.

Everyone was able to enjoy Cecilia during the holiday. My Grandmother was especially excited to spend time with her. She lives in Michigan and is able to visit on a regular basis. She has watched Olivia grow up and is now taking delight in watching another great grandchild change and grow before her eyes. My girls call their great grandmother, Nana Cleo and I know she loves being able to see them so frequently. Not many of us really get to know our great grandparents. Olivia has had five years with Nana Cleo. I would love for Cecilia to have five years with her too.

We used the Thanksgiving holiday as a chance to take some updated family photos. It is not too often that so many of us are together at the same time. There are quite a few family members missing from these photos but we were able to take a four generations picture as well as a picture with the grandkids and great-grandkids (those who were in town, anyway).

I have so much more to be thankful for this year. I now have two amazing and beautiful little girls in my life. Olivia continues to impress me with her ever expanding mind and true love of life. Having Cecilia in our lives has changed our family dynamic, but in a wonderful way. We hesitated initially about having a second child, but now that I see Olivia with her little sister I cannot imagine us not being a family of four. Olivia was meant to be a big sister and she has handled the transition with such grace. There is not a day that goes by where she doesn't tell us just how much she loves her sister. Watching these two girls build a bond with one another has been one of the greatest joys of my life, thus far.

With Thanksgiving out of the way it was time to kick our Christmas preparations into high gear. First on the list was getting the decorations up and our trees decorated. Olivia has her own little tree that she decorates on her own. The plan is to get Cecilia a matching tree for next Christmas that she can start to decorate too.

Next it was off to visit Santa. This would be Cecilia's first Santa visit, but Olivia 6th!!! Olivia was only one month old the first time she visited Santa. Now at 5 she is a seasoned pro. She hopped right into Santa's lap and recited her Christmas wish list. After Santa listened carefully Cecilia joined her sister for their first picture with Santa together. I must say it turned out very well. Next year may be interesting, as Cecilia may be a bit more hesitant to sit in the lap of the man in the red suit.

We also took the girls to see live reindeer. It was a little too cold for Cecilia so she was hidden under her car seat cover, but Olivia got up close and personal with a adult and baby reindeer. They were very cute!

Each year we visit the Botanical Gardens with one of Olivia's little friends from school. They love running around together through the Christmas displays. Olivia and Laurel always enjoy their time together and this has become of our Christmas traditions that we always look forward to.

Cecilia often misses out on some of our family outings due to her napping schedule, or lack there of right now. I am having a great deal of difficulty getting this child to take decent naps. She seems to do very well during the week with her babysitter, but once she is at home for the weekends her naps continue to be a struggle. It often involves waking after a short time and then spending a great deal of time trying to get the child to go back to sleep. We need to really get serious with our sleep training but I have been putting it off. It is time for Cece to learn to soothe herself back to sleep when she wakes from naps and nighttime sleep. I remember doing this with Olivia. It was hard at first, but worth it in the end. I am a stickler for sleep and I will do whatever I have to in order to get this child to be a good sleeper. Strange thing is that even with very little sleep she still tends to be a pretty happy baby. Go figure!

Aside from our sleeping issues Cecilia is making a ton of progress developmentally. She is close to sitting up unassisted. She can prop herself up for a minute or so before toppling over. One thing I have noticed about this child is just how strong she is. She has a great deal of upper body strength and can lift her entire chest off the ground. She has been rolling from her back to her belly for about a month and a half now but has yet to roll from her belly to her back. Not sure why, but she just won't do it. She is quite the chatterbox too. That is one thing that her and her big sister have in common. Her smiles go on for miles and she is just most squishy and cuddly little baby.

In between all of Christmas festivities we squeezed in a super fun event at Olivia's school. On the last day of school before break, Peace Montessori hosted their annual International Night. Each classroom represents a different country and prepares food and decorations to show that country's culture. Olivia's classroom featured the country of Holland. My Mom just returned from a trip to Holland so she was able to contribute quite a bit to help them prepare for the event. To say that the food from each country was enjoyable is a understatement. It was a fun night and we left with very full tummies.

With Christmas only a few days away I need to kick it into high gear. It is amazing how much more difficult it is to prepare for this holiday with a second child in the mix. There just are not enough hours in the day. Everything may not get done and it may not be perfect, but that's ok. I am just thankful to have a happy, healthy family to share this special time of year with. I have a five year old who is counting the days until Santa arrives and a 5 month old that smiles constantly...life is pretty darn good!

Monday, November 28, 2011

5 already?

I can hardly believe it as I say it out loud...Olivia is 5 years old! It seems like just yesterday she was digging into her first little birthday cake. Now my girl is all grown up!

Olivia's birthday celebration was an all week event, concluding with a fabulous party to recognize this important milestone. It was Olivia's "all about me" week at school so she was able to bring in things to share and do a few special things to celebrate her birthday. On that Friday, her actual birthday she woke up to a breakfast surprise...a chocolate donut! She wanted a special breakfast and wanted to be surprised. I knew this would do the trick.

Her special week at school ended with a Montessori tradition, "the walk around the sun". This is a special ceremony that recognizes each year of their lives. They walk around the circle one time for each year. This is a huge hit with the kids because the focus in entirely on them.

The celebrating continued when we took Olivia out for a special "big girl" dinner that night. It was her first trip to Takaoka. Growing up my parents would take me to this Japanese hibachi restaurant each year on my birthday. I thought this would be a fun tradition to start with Olivia now that she is old enough to appreciate it. This is a really fun place to eat. The chefs put on quite a show. Olivia was fascinated by how quickly our chef prepared our food and he did a ton of fancy tricks to keep her interested. Olivia loves Japanese food so she was in heaven once her plate was filled with shrimp and rice.

This restaurant is a popular place for people to go on their birthdays. They bring you a special ice cream treat and sing a Japanese birthday song. You usually hear the song at least half a dozen times during dinner. Olivia had a wonderful time so I think the tradition will continue next year.

The festivities came to a close the next day with Olivia's birthday party. She chose a ladybug theme which was fun to prepare. I found some adorable ladybug decorations which were emphasized by the many different ladybug stuffed animals and knick-knacks Olivia has around the house.

My Mom impressed as always with some amazing ladybug snacks. Her nickname is "Martha", as in Martha Stewart. Can you see why? Only my Mom has the patience and talent to pull off snacks like these. They not only looked adorable, but were quite yummy too.

The cake put the perfect finishing touch on this ladybug party. The office manager at Olivia's school has made her cake for the past 3 years. She does an amazing job! Her cakes aren't just nice to look at, but they taste amazing. Of course Olivia was thrilled with her cake as well and made a super special wish as she blew out her candles.

Olivia received some very nice gifts from her friends and family. Obviously that was her favorite part of her party. She did a good job of thanking everyone for her gifts and showing enthusiasm as she opened each present.

It was a very successful party and a lot of fun too. Olivia is already makes plans for birthday party #6! Cecilia was delightful that night, as she was passed from one person to the next. I hardly saw my child the whole night, but she had no problem being in other people's arms. I love that she seems to have turned into such an easy going baby.

Cecilia has a few new developments to report. She is now pushing up on her hands when she lays on her tummy. She is also able to sit up on her own for a few seconds at a time without support. She still has a way to go but I have a feeling she will be there very soon. This is a very strong child and is able to do things with very little help. She is also starting to react more to Olivia. Olivia has been able to get a few giggles out of Cecilia by acting as silly as possible. I have a feeling Olivia will be Cecilia's preferred method of entertainment for a long time.


We just wrapped up a very busy Thanksgiving weekend. We are all trying to get back on track and into a more relaxed routine. We are also in full Christmas prep mode. I will have much more to share in the upcoming weeks. Can't wait to spend our first Christmas with Cecilia!

Friday, November 11, 2011

all things halloween

What a fun month this has been. We have spent the past few weeks enjoying many different fall and Halloween activities. This year has been extra special since we were able to include Cecilia in all of our little family traditions. First on the list was the annual Zoo Halloween.

The weather was perfect which meant that Olivia was able to show off her costume and not cover it up with a jacket. She told me she wanted to be a black cat the day after Halloween ended last year. Surprisingly she never changed her mind. My Mom found an adorable little pink kitty outfit for Cecilia, which was just as comfy as jammies. So we strolled around the zoo with both of our little kitties, while Olivia collected her treats. Next year Cecilia will be walking through the zoo with her big sister leading the way!

Next on the agenda was the annual Fall Family Festival at Olivia's school. Each year the school puts on a great festival including games, snacks, costume parade and the very popular trunk-or-treat! Cecilia sat this one out as it was a bit chilly that day.

This year they threw a dunk tank into the mix and it was a huge hit with the kids. Olivia could hardly wait to try and dunk her teacher, Ms. Laura. She shocked us all when she hit the bullseye on her second throw and her teacher fell into the tank of freezing cold water. I must hand it to the teachers of Peace Montessori. There is nothing like showing your devotion to your job than allowing yourself to be dunked into cold water on a 50 degree fall day!

We were enjoying ourselves until the weather took a turn for the worse. Just as the kids were getting ready to start their trunk-or-treat the wind picked up and it started to rain. Olivia and I ran through the parking lot and hit every trunk as fast as we could collecting her candy. Daddy pulled up the car, we hopped in and headed home early. Luckily we were able to enjoy the majority of the festival before the weather forced us to leave.

And as if we did not have enough candy already we still had Halloween around the corner. The weather cooperated again and we were all able to enjoy a nice walk throughout the neighborhood. Cecilia was bundled up in her little kitty outfit and Olivia was prepared with her treat bag. She could hardly contain her excitement as she ran from house to house. She was on a mission to collect as much candy as humanly possible in two hours.

Cecilia was a trooper that night. She just relaxed in her stroller and enjoyed the cool, fall evening as Olivia dashed through our neighborhood at lightening speed. Todd took Cece home once it started getting dark while Olivia finished up her candy collecting. She could hardly hold her treat bag by the end of the night it was so heavy. Once we got home we dumped the candy out on the floor and assessed the damage. I could not believe how much she managed to get in such a short period of time. All of that candy is in a huge bowl on top of our refrigerator and I have a feeling it will take us ages to eat it all. Olivia is only allowed to have a few pieces each day and of course Todd and I occasionally sneak a piece here and there. (It is so hard to resist!).

Halloween was a huge success and according to Olivia, her favorite holiday ever! I can't wait until next year when Cecilia will be toddling around with her big sister collecting candy.

Mixed in with all of our fall festivities was Olivia's first ever horseback riding lesson. We won a gift certificate at a silent auction last year for a couple of lessons and thought she would enjoy giving it a try. Before she began her first lesson she had to get fitted with her horseback riding gear. How cute does she look? My little rider!

I figured that they would spend a lot of time teaching her the basics before actually putting her on a horse but I was wrong. Within minutes of starting her first lesson she saddled up on a beautiful horse named, China and immediately got down to business. She learned how to hold the reigns, how to get the horse to start and stop and how to make her turn. She really enjoyed enjoyed herself and picked up on the instruction very easily. I was very proud of how well she listened to her teacher and how well she handled herself on that huge animal! We may continue with the lessons to see where it leads.

Now for a quick update on Cecilia. She is now four months old and is just delightful. If someone would have told me a few months ago that I would have a baby with the most pleasant disposition I would have said you were crazy. What a difference a few months can make! She smiles constantly. She only fusses if she is tired or hungry. She is laughing, rolling over and trying to sit up on her own. She rolled over for the first time just shy of 4 months old. It was an exciting moment for all of us.


At her recent check up she weighed in at 15 lbs. 15 oz and 25 inches in length. She is a bit smaller than Olivia at this age, but not much. You should see the legs on this girl. They are sturdy, that's for sure! She is also a very loud baby. She babbles and often yells at us, making sure she is being heard. Olivia was a very early talker and I have a feeling Cecilia is going to be the same way. She is sleeping much better now and seems to have settled into a very nice routine for us.

Olivia continues to take her job as "big sister" very seriously. She is always interacting with Cecilia and showering her with hugs and kisses. I could not be more proud of my big girl and how well she has handled this life changing experience. I look forward to watching the bond between my two girls grow stronger as the months/years pass. I look at both of my girls each day and I am reminded of just how lucky I am.

The most recent development in our house is the fact that Olivia is now 5 years old! We just finished celebrating her birthday and throwing a fantastic party. I will recap all of those fun festivities next time.