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Tuesday, October 08, 2013

proud mama bird

My little girls are growing up. This became more apparent than ever when I dropped them both off for their first day of school last month. Olivia could hardly contain her excitement as she woke up for her first day of 1st grade. In fact, she had been anticipating it all summer. Cecilia on the other hand really had no idea what she was getting into. One thing was certain on that first day of school, this mama bird sure was proud of her girls as she saw them standing side-by-side in their backpacks.


Now Cecilia's first day of school was actually Olivia's 2nd day. Cecilia helped me send Olivia off on her first day, mainly by trying to avoid hugs and kisses from her sister. That's Cece for ya! The main thing at the front of my mind as I snapped photos of my big girl on her first day of 1st grade was, how did we get here so fast!




Olivia made her way into her new classroom on that first day like she had been in 1st grade for months. Starting a new grade with new teachers is much easier when you are surrounded by your besties. These girls have been together since they were babies in the toddler room. They have experienced so many wonderful things together and now they have each other while they venture into new territory.


One thing that made Olivia's first day of school even more thrilling was losing her second front tooth at lunch. The first one came out just a few days before. We didn't expect the second tooth to follow so quickly. One of Olivia's teachers was kind enough to send me this photo moments after the tooth fell out. This event really helped to make that first day extra special!


Cecilia's transition into school was a bit more challenging. After a successful introductory day in the classroom with me by her side I thought she was ready to go. As we walked her in for her first solo day she quickly changed her tone and turned on the waterworks. It took Cecilia about two weeks to adjust to going to school 3 mornings a week and being able to do it without crying. What we discovered was that she was most comfortable having her big sister walk her in each day. That way she could say good bye to me at the car and it was not me leaving her at the classroom door. After a longer than I expected transition period she is now attending school without tears and loving it!



As if starting school was not enough of a change in Cece's life we also signed her up for her first dance class. I shouldn't have been surprised to see that going into tap class without me would evoke a similar reaction to being left at school. I never experienced these difficulties with Olivia, so to see Cecilia have so much trouble jumping head first into these new life changes was challenging for me too. There is a little boy in her tap class that is also in her class at school. I thought that would make things easier...nope. For the first few weeks of class she would cry as she was scooped up by her teacher. The good news is that the hard stuff is behind us now and she is enjoying both school and "tappy" class.





My favorite thing about taking her to dance class each week is looking at my sweet girl in her cute little dance outfits. I just love the way her tree-trunk legs look in her tiny tap shoes. But more than that I look at her and realize how proud of her I am. I have recently turned her comfortable life upside down, making her try new things with new people. She has not handled these changes in her life with ease. There have been tears and fear in her eyes as I leave her in unfamiliar situations. I have to remind myself that her reactions are pretty normal. Of course my fears and concerns about her unhappiness with starting school and dance are now a thing of the past. She is enjoying her new routine and excelling at her new activities.


Prior to the kids getting into their new school routines we squeezed in some fun "end of the summer" activities. We always try to catch a TinCaps game each summer with the girls. Olivia usually receives a free ticket through the summer reading program at the library and we tag along with her. Lawn seats at the TinCaps always equal a good time!




Another big part of summer for Olivia was soccer. She has been playing consistently for over a year now and it is amazing how much she has improved. The Plex offers a great program for the kids which focuses on skill building, team work and most importantly...fun! She has made some great friends and enjoyed herself tremendously. Things wrapped up at the end of the summer with the medal ceremony. Medals are great, but creating friendships...that's priceless.




Our summer is never complete without a trip to our dear friend's lake home. Every year we spend a day at their cottage. The girls play in the sand as we sit back and relax in lounge chairs. The girls do a great job entertaining one another, which gives Mom a chance to enjoy the peacefulness of lake life. 




A highlight of being at the lake for the girls is taking a boat ride. They being out on the water and the faster the better when it comes to crusin' the lake. No matter how busy our summer gets we always manage to squeeze in our lake day...just another one of our family traditions. 



We had a jammed packed summer. It was full of fun activities with the kids. But before heading back to school we wanted to do something special with just Olivia. Months ago I bought tickets to see Bruno Mars in concert in Indianapolis. We decided to take a mini-vacation for a few days and show Olivia a good time before that first day of school. We stayed downtown and did our best to squeeze as much as we could in a few days. Our first night in town we took Olivia to the Hard Rock Cafe followed by a stroll through downtown.




The next morning we headed to the Indy Zoo. Our hotel was in the heart of downtown and everything we wanted to do was in walking distance. It was a beautiful day and the animals were so active. Olivia had never been to the Indy Zoo before so she was super excited to see animals we do not have at our zoo like bears, elephants, flamingos and rhinos.






Some of the highlights of the day included the dolphin show and getting hands-on with the sharks. For me the highlights were watching the walrus and the polar bear, but nothing was better than seeing Olivia enjoy herself. The whole purpose of our end of the summer get-a-way was to give her some care free time before diving back into school work, and I think we achieved just that.





After the zoo we popped into the butterfly gardens just next door. The butterflies were beautiful but very hard to photograph. I did manage to catch one resting on a leaf for a split second. A much more enjoyable subject to capture on camera is my stunning Olivia. She is simply beautiful inside and out. With her 7th birthday quickly approaching I could not be more proud of the little girl she has become. 




On the way back to the hotel we decided to stop and rent a family bicycle to ride up and down the Indianapolis Canal. I have walked up and down that canal a handful of times but never rented one of the bikes. It turned out to be a really fun experience and a great way to wrap up our fun afternoon.


That evening we prepared for our concert. With tickets in hand we stopped for some pre-Bruno pizza at an incredible pizza joint on the way. Olivia could hardly contain her excitement as we waited to see Bruno live!




It was quite late by the time Bruno hit the stage, but the wait was worth it. He put on an amazing show and kept us on our feet the entire time. Olivia fought sleepiness to sing and dance with me to all of our favorite songs. It had been years since I attended a concert and I found myself more excited than anyone to see a live performance. It was a late night but one we will always remember. We still talk about what fun we had that night and during our end of the summer getaway. 



Now Fall is in full swing and we are busier than ever. The girls have their activities; soccer, dance, gymnastics, etc. and we are working to squeeze in all of our favorite fall activities before the cold weather sets in. One thing is for sure...there is never a dull moment!

Thursday, August 22, 2013

baby no more

Holy smokes...Cecilia's two! Our little spit fire has made these past few years fly by in a flash. What better way to celebrate this occasion than with a Sesame Street birthday party! This little girl jumped feet first into her birthday festivities...starting with her life-size Elmo balloon. Well, actually her sister's Elmo balloon.


Olivia was given this balloon on her first birthday and it is able to be refilled so we kept it just in case our second child would love Elmo the way Olivia did. Cecilia's love for Elmo does not go as deep as Olivia's did, but she sure does love him. When I came home on her birthday with this balloon filled with air the smile on her face was priceless. She spent the next 3 weeks hugging her Elmo balloon and pulling him around the house. 


As always we went all out on the details when it came to decorations and snacks. Obviously my Mom handled most of the food related items, but I made sure that Sesame Street characters were well represented at the party.





My nephew's extremely talented wife, once again did Cecilia's birthday cake. She has been doing cakes for the girls for the past couple of years and her work is AMAZING! I found a photo online of a cake that I liked and she did a perfect replication. How fabulous!


One big difference from last year to this year was Cecilia's involvement in opening her presents. She couldn't wait to tear through each gift. The joy in her eyes was contagious as she discovered what was inside. 





Next it was on to cake! It's a no-brainer that Cece would enjoy her cake. I think what she enjoyed the most was having an audience. My child does not pass up an opportunity to show off...or make a silly face. She is such a ham!






Cecilia's 2nd birthday party can be checked off as a success. My girl was surrounded by those that love her the most...and Elmo. It doesn't get much better than that for a two year old!


Since her birthday Lady Cecilia is doing her best to live up to the typical two year old reputation.Throughout the summer we have been dealing with some difficult behavior. This little lady can be as sweet as pie one minute and the next minute she is raising her hand at you. We do not understand how or why she does this, but I am desperate for her to stop. It has been a long and frustrating process trying to get her to express her anger in other ways, but we are working on it. Cecilia is a very expressive little girl. She never hides her emotions and you can easily tell what she is thinking and feeling simply by the look on her face.


We celebrated the 4th of July in style this year...with a private little family party in our driveway. Step one...seek out the fireworks that make the least amount of noise. Step two... put on a firework display designed for a kid that hates loud noises. Unlike her sister, Cece does not seem to mind the loud booms. This little one made enough noise all on her own in her fierce 4th of July tutu!



Our summer has consisted of many other fun activities and milestones. We have spent as much time as possible swimming or playing in the water. A trip to the Splash Pad on one particularly hot summer day was the perfect way for the girls to cool off!




For one week this summer Olivia worked on her soccer skills by attending the Beasley Soccer camp. This week long camp was not only instructional but incredibly fun for the kids. Olivia's dear friend, Aleah, whom she normally plays soccer with, attended the camp as well. The girls had such a great time improving their soccer skills and having tons of fun at the same time!




This has been an eventful summer for our big girl. I have watched her grow and mature so much in the past few months.She takes her hobbies and activities very seriously and works hard to do her best. On occasion Olivia encounters something difficult and has trouble dealing with her frustration. For Olivia the hardest task she has faced so far in her six years is learning to ride a bike. After many tears, scrapes and bruises she finally conquered this milestone and is officially a bike rider!




I could not be more proud of my girl. In fact, we both shared tears of happiness after she took off for the first time without her training wheels. The feeling of watching her take off on her own and ride around the playground was by far one of my most rewarding mommy moments. She is now a pro on the bike and we have taken many family bike rides in the past few weeks.


With only a few weeks of summer remaining we took a trip to Michigan to visit my Grandmother. She is currently living in an assisted living facility and seeing her great grandchildren is just what she needed to brighten her days. Even though she is not currently living at home she still has her house which is a stone's throw away from Lake Michigan. Of course we had to take the girls to the beach to play in the sand and waves. 





We have a few fun places we like to visit when we come to town. A trip to Muskegon is not complete without a trip to the local, old fashioned candy store. Some sour candies and chocolate are the only things my girls need to be in candy heaven! We also enjoyed dinner at the town's best pizza joint...Fricano's! Sitting right on the lake we enjoyed watching the sunset after dinner. 





It was a nice weekend getaway and more importantly it meant so much for my grandmother to spend some time with her great granddaughters. These girls mean the world to her and they can always bring a smile to her face.


School started today! For the first time this year both of my girls will be attending the same school. Olivia is now a first grader and tomorrow Cece will be starting in her preschool class. Although Olivia is in school full time Cece will only be attending 3 mornings a week. On those morning I will get to watch my little ladies walk into school hand-in-hand. I can only imagine how that will tug at my heart strings. My girls are growing up!